Nigerian actress and producer Ruth Kadiri has offered a potent piece of advice that many public personalities, particularly women, may relate to in a world where social media has made it harder to distinguish between private and public life..CONTINUE FULL READING>>>>>
Speaking from personal experience, Kadiri underlined how crucial it is to maintain the privacy of one’s marriage. “As a public figure, I’ve learned this lesson the hard way: keep your marriage private,” she wrote. People begin to feel entitled to your tale the instant they have too much information.
Ruth Kadiri didn’t mince words when she warned Priscilla Ojo, a fellow celebrity and the daughter of well-known Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo. Her message was straightforward: while the internet can be a secure place to express joy, it can also serve as a haven for unwarranted pressure, miscommunications, and gossip. You will hear a lot on the internet, I assure you—things that can shock, hurt, and even perplex you,” she added. Some will accuse him of infidelity. She is impolite, according to others. The majority of these individuals are unfamiliar with you. All they want to watch is drama play out.
Kadiri demonstrated the harm that can result from public speculation. Based on her own observations and experience, she has witnessed successful marriages fall apart—not due to genuine problems, but rather to untrue stories spread by others. I have witnessed stunning mansions fall apart due to a single, untrue blog post or comment. What did she advise? Opt for protection over fame and peace over performance.
Keep your peace. Protect your house. Don’t share every detail, just love. Let the glow, not the method, be visible to the world. Because people want to destroy it more the more they know. Silence is protection, and privacy is power. Kadiri’s remarks serve as a reminder that not everything precious needs to be shared in this day and age of excessive sharing. Setting boundaries is not only beneficial but also essential for those in the spotlight, particularly in partnerships.CONTINUE FULL READING>>>>>